Girlzwin is a sexual assault awareness and prevention program aimed at college bound high school seniors.

Our goal is to reduce the alarming number of sexual assaults which occur on our nation’s college campuses.

We also conduct self-defense workshops for corporations and organizations throughout the community, for women and girls of all ages.


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Educate Girls: Through education and awareness, we arm young women with information to help them make critical choices. Some of these choices can reduce the chance of them becoming a victim altogether. While an assault is never the victim’s fault, we encourage personal responsibility and reliance on peer support systems to increase safety.

Educate Boys: Sexual assault is not a gender issue, it’s a human issue. We believe that young men can make a difference. We advocate applying positive peer pressure to change attitudes and actions which lead to assaults.

Give girls tools: The Girlzwin self-defense system provides realistic, unique and surprisingly easy to apply solutions to any violent confrontation. It is fun to learn, simple and unforgettable.

Make a difference: We believe that by educating girls and boys alike, and providing girls with reliable and effective tools to handle encounters, we can actually reduce the number of assaults occurring in our country.

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Our Team

Paul Redman

Paul is the Founder and President of Girlzwin and has over 30 years experience in a variety of Martial Arts disciplines.

He is a former National Champion of Barbados Shotokan Karate in both Kata and Kumite, and is proficient in Kung Fu San Soo, Black Dragon Kung Fu, and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

Paul has an innate ability to take a complex concept, and make it simple; which is how the Girlzwin system was born.
A former Software Engineer, Paul used his attention to detail and program design ability, to create a system which covers every aspect of how a violent encounter may unfold, whilst maintaining true simplicity and effectiveness.

Paul is an engaging Speaker, who quickly finds a way to connect with his audience, and make them comfortable with an uncomfortable topic. He constantly researches his craft, consulting with Law Enforcement, victims and perpetrators alike.

Paul also volunteers his time to help abused women. He lives in Irvine, CA with his wife and two teenage sons.

Bruce Stinson

Bruce grew up in West Covina, California and has nearly 40 years experience in Martial Arts. He is currently studying Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and is proficient in Kenpo Karate, boxing and Kendo.

He often works Personal Security Details in addition to his work with Girlzwin and enjoys training with weapons of any kind as a hobby.

Bruce is passionate about protecting women and is known affectionately as a “big teddy bear”. He has a natural way of warming up a room, with his easy style and sharp sense of humor.

Bruce lives in Newport Beach with his fiancée and daughter Alyssa.

Alyssa Lee

Alyssa is Bruce’s daughter and is following in her father’s footsteps of immersing herself into Martial Arts.

Although just 23 years old, Alyssa has already earned two Gold and two Silver medals in regional Judo competition, and practices daily the art of Muay Thai Kickboxing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. She plans to compete as a Professional MMA fighter, making her debut in the summer of 2014.

Despite her accomplishments, Alyssa describes the Girlzwin system as “better than all the rest”. Alyssa has experienced sexual assault first hand, and vows to help girls avoid becoming victims and also to be an example of strength despite adversity.

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Moment of truth

My name is Paul Redman. My moment of truth did not come instantly, or with one traumatic event or loss, but rather it has come over a period of about 35 years.

I was born in Barbados, in my grandmother’s bed. We were sleeping in that bed when a serial rapist tried to enter our bedroom window. My grandmother (Daisy Redman) was afraid of no one – and the perverted monster was no exception. She slammed into him with a hammer which she kept unbeknownst to me under our bed and he fled into the night and was later captured. I was about 5 years old (Moment One). At the age of 10 I began taking Martial Arts lessons, and by age 16 I was National Champion in Shotokan Karate. I taught young beginner students at the local club and for some reason, always took special interest in making sure the female students kicked and punched as hard as their young male counterparts (Moment Two). Fast forward to the years 2000-2012 and every chance I get, I teach any young woman I know how to defend herself before she goes off to college. I come into contact with many young women through my Personal Training business, and my gift of self-defense became my standard high school graduation present (Moment Three).

One young woman close to our family, who left for college without receiving my standard present, was the victim of a violent sexual assault during her freshman year in 2012. It was at that moment (Moment Four) that I decided that I had to do something. I refined my system, plunged myself into enormous amounts of research and analysis, came up with the name “Girlzwin” and marched forward with the mission to educate girls before they enter college. Now my system is very well received in the community and Girlzwin is raising awareness to girls and boys alike on the issue of sexual assaults on college campuses, and we are indeed making a difference.

Girlzwin is for Daisy Redman, and all the young women in our community. I encourage all of you, to find your “moment” of truth.

Paul Redman
Girlzwin LLC

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Girlzwin LLC






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